congratulations to me?

Jessi · June 11, 2005, 02:40:06 AM

hi Ric,

Know how you feel, But i can a assure you things do get better! Ive had two big relationships and Im only 23! The first bloke changed me, i think he turned me into his mother!! i got stuck for 4 yrs with him and always did as he said, he was a controling inmature ******d!! So when we split i hadnt had my hair done for years wore no make up and weighed 20 stone!! (Yes for those who have met me its true) So guess what i did when i finaly got shot of him. GOT A HAIRCUT. went blond for the first time! wore makeup and found my friends again. Also lost 6 stone!! in 1 yr. I now have fantstic memories for the years after. I then met another bloke who i got serious with and ended up moving 300 miles away from home! Although it didnt work out we\'re still friend nearly 4 yrs on! The way I look at life you never know whats round the corner. If id stayed with the 1st bloke i would probaly still be stuck in my horrid lil home town and weiging 30 stone! I would never of met the 2nd and would not be where i am today.

We\'ll im still single and after the initial shock of it all my lifes great, yes i miss not waking up next to someone everyday, but i enjoy going out and enjoying myself without having to worry about what he\'s upto or what he wants for his dinner when i go shopping etc..

What im trying to say is it may not feel like it now but it does get eaiser! Hope things turn around for you soon.

Ric · June 11, 2005, 05:23:48 PM

Thanks for all the support!

I haven\'t slit my wrists yet. Actually to be fair I\'m already less bothered about it all day by day.

I helped her move most of her stuff out last weekend and we were getting on really well. Kind-of agreed to see how things go over the next couple of weeks - to be honest though she still doesn\'t seem to want to accept responsibility for what shes done so I don\'t see a future - she needs to grow up a bit.

Why do I always like the crazy girls?

feck.

Anyway - I\'m off to drink some cheap beer and check out the fillies at Kings College student union bar tonight with some mates.

Ahh student days - now those were the times.

Ric · June 11, 2005, 05:26:08 PM

QuoteOriginally posted by the lemster
ric, I know you dont know me but....

sorry to hear about your loss... though you can pick another one for about 6K...

:rollin

Fish · June 11, 2005, 05:45:18 PM

QuoteOriginally posted by Ric
Why do I always like the crazy girls?

And I thought it was just me.....

Fish

iaint · June 11, 2005, 05:56:08 PM

QuoteOriginally posted by Ric
Anyway - I\'m off to drink some cheap beer and check out the fillies at Kings College student union bar tonight with some mates.

Ahh student days - now those were the times.

I\'d watch out for the fillies - they turn into nags...

Gimme a bell if you want a lift to the pub meet on Tuesday...

Iain

Ric · June 12, 2005, 05:32:05 PM

well it was certainly and interesting night - plastic pint glasses, cheap drinks and sticky floors. ahh the good old days.

I had a narrow escape as I had a weird, self-obsessed crazy girl trying to chat me up for ages but was literally saved by the bell when someone set the fire alarm off and the whole place had to be evacuated.

I wouldn\'t of minded so much but she still wasn\'t remotely attractive even after all the cheap drinks. I was flattered by the fact that she thought I was 22 though

:rollin

Fish · June 12, 2005, 06:28:41 PM

Did she have a guide dog with her or was she that drunk? :p

Fish

Ric · June 12, 2005, 06:34:54 PM

Come to think of it, it was a little hazy in there...

what am I saying? - I still have all my youthful charm, witty repartee and, more importantly, hair. :p

Fish · June 12, 2005, 07:44:59 PM

Have you been taking bitch lessons from the bish? :rollin

Fish

Denny · June 12, 2005, 08:36:58 PM

QuoteOriginally posted by Ric
Why do I always like the crazy girls?

I think you\'ll find that you just like girls. They\'re all crazy.

These days I\'ve taken to hanging out with the ones who are quite clearly and blatantly crazy from the minute I meet them, at least it doesn\'t come as a nasty shock then

Glad to hear you feel like you\'re \'moving on up\' now, it\'s always a ****ty thing to happen but there\'s always light at the end of the tunnel too.

Ric · June 13, 2005, 12:07:22 AM

QuoteOriginally posted by Fish
Have you been taking bitch lessons from the bish? :rollin

Fish

No - I\'ve just turned back from Mr. Nice-guy into my natural bitter and twisted self.

Archbish · June 13, 2005, 08:59:01 AM

QuoteHave you been taking bitch lessons from the bish?

*grin* so far I have yet to wake up with someone I didn\'t fancy the next day - very proud of that!

And I have a new nickname in my family - Hi, I\'d like to introduce myself as TowTruck. Because I can pull anything...

(better than being called "tug", or because I DO pull anything)

Kieron · June 13, 2005, 09:09:22 AM

QuoteOriginally posted by Archbish
*grin* so far I have yet to wake up with someone I didn\'t fancy the next day - very proud of that!

And I have a new nickname in my family - Hi, I\'d like to introduce myself as TowTruck. Because I can pull anything...

(better than being called "tug", or because I DO pull anything)

LMFAO :rollin

I\'ve never woke up next to someone I didnt fancy, usually kick them out once I\'m done

Good luck in getting your life back Ric!

iaint · June 13, 2005, 09:17:11 AM

QuoteOriginally posted by Archbish
*grin* so far I have yet to wake up with someone I didn\'t fancy the next day - very proud of that!

We\'ll see if that changes this weekend

Archbish · June 13, 2005, 09:40:07 AM

QuoteOriginally posted by iaint
We\'ll see if that changes this weekend

Don\'t worry - I\'ll be gentle...

I\'ll clarify my comment - I\'ve never woken up next to someone I\'ve been intimate with that I\'ve never fancied. Not that you aren\'t attractive, cos you are, but I\'ve never thought of you that way. Which doesn\'t mean I\'ll never think of you that way, but for now, I think that is out of the question. But I\'m not rejecting you, it\'s just that the place I\'m in means I wouldn\'t want to hurt you. Although I can if you asked, but I don\'t want to ruin our friendship, and you are too nice a person for me to do that to. It\'s not you, it\'s me, and it would be unfair of me to lead you astray without some promise of a future together, and besides you already have Petra, and that would not be fair to do that this weekend until you\'ve decided to leave her for me, but maybe soon we can get it on, but only when you\'ve made you mind up - ME OR PETRA.

God that got complicated...

congratulations to me?

Jessi

Denny

Kieron