which exhaust?

[chris p]

I currently have a trust/greddy power extreme 2 exhaust fitted and it too loud ! neighbours complain when i go out and its just far far to noisy when driving anywhere (have no cats in and what looks like a strait through exhaust all the way !). What exhausts are reasonably quiet on idle but give a nice tone when pressing the loud pedal ?
A mate has the re:amemeia (if thats spelt right) dolphin nose (?) and it sounds just right but i have also been looking at the apexi ones (to keep the theme on the car going   ) any suggestions ?